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Marry
or Burn
by Valerie Trueblood
Counterpoint Press
2010
First
Collection
Awards: Shortlisted, 2011 Frank O'Connor International Short Story Award
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"
Our
father married a woman who took an ax to a bear. She did it to save
her first husband."
Reviewed
by Pauline Masurel
Marry
or burn: why choose between the two? Some of the women in these
stories manage both (at least metaphorically). The wife in the first
story, Amends,
shoots
her husband. You can't get much more fire-power in a marriage than
that. The final story, Beloved,
You Looked into Space,
tells the story of a family who acquire a new step-mother who once
used violence in defence of her late husband. In fact, both of these
stories (and others in this collection) display the sort of
expansiveness that you'd expect to find in a novel rather than a
short story, having a wide cast of characters and a lengthy timeline.
All
sorts of angles on marriage are represented in this collection –
from dating to weddings to widowhood. Second (and subsequent)
marriages and affairs also feature. In the penultimate story there's
even a Tom
Thumb Wedding, a
mock ceremony in which two young girls, decked out as bride and
groom, "marry".
It's a touching story that moves back and forth in time between "then" and "now" and examines how the innocence of childhood and
matrimony have changed, or haven't. In Choices
in Dreams
a woman falls in love with someone else's husband. In
Suitors,
Meg
doesn't content herself with one potential husband, she works her way
through all three men presented to her by her friend Lali, who is a
professional matchmaker.
These
are American stories, and they are predominantly ones that focus upon
women's experiences. Trespass
is an exception to this, being the story of a man who goes back to
his ex-wife's cabin and meets a couple who are tangled up in her
lives. It's a complex look at how past and present relationships
intrude upon each other, the importance of physical territory in
defining a relationship and how the carer can end up becoming the one
who is cared for.
Invisible
River
pulls the curious trick of reminding us that we're reading a story
without ever totally becoming a meta-fiction. Suddenly we are pulled
away from two women in a train station bathroom and told that, "Groundless near happiness doesn't do anything for the Reader, if
she comes across it on the page. She is looking for something with
an edge." And "the Reader" in the story gives us a wry analysis of
women in fiction. "They're embarking on this or that, lowering
themselves into unfamiliar waters, testing their freedom. Behind
them there's always some ruin, some man has ruined everything and
then they surmount the ruin."
I enjoyed the knowing humour of
these sorts of commentaries which sometimes break free from the
story. For example, the rules of widowhood are explained.
"A
widow didn't go on and on in the sloppy condition permitted in the
first weeks; a widow remarried or took an interest in the church or
the lives of the next generation, or all three, ideally. To do
otherwise, to let a bad habit get the better of you, to drink cheap
wine for months on end, certainly to be picked up out of wet grass
before dawn and have the snails pulled off you by your own child...to
do these things was to imply that your loss had exceeded the losses
of others. That your husband had been somehow superior. That you,
yourself, had been uniquely struck down." These stories offer new angles on
the experience of marriage, with characters who are both in and out
of the state of matrimony, both those who anticipate it and those who
are living in its aftermath As in life, there are no romantic,
sugar-coated happily-ever-afters about these stories but there is
plenty of hope and humanity to be found, along with a certain amount
of heat.
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